Questions...

How about a complexified answer. The one exists. But, so do the many "ones." It really depends on who/what you want out of a relationship, I guess. I'm thinking the "one" exists for a lot of people. There's a lot of marriages going around where both partners are faithful and truly have found "the one." On the other hand, you do have a lot of people who are "turned on," and not just in the sexual way, but you know, in the mind and soul kinda way, by many people--I know people who are descent and good people who have had many "ones." I can't say both are really that wrong and that one or the other has been better for either. They've just had a very different history.

Is that what I wanted to say? I think so.